A youth without money is limited in his or her operations.
Youths dream to build good houses, ride the best cars, marry the best wives, enjoy the best of relaxations, have establishments that will echo all over the globe, be famous like the world known footballers and musicians, and so many other good things.
But the truth is that some of these dreams of the people in this class do not come through even before they leave the planet earth.
Youthful age is the time in the life of young people filled with so many challenges. Many in the course of these challenges have lost focus in life. Some have found themselves in the point of indecision because of the demanding tasks involved in this stage of life.
Youths dream to build good houses, ride the best cars, marry
the best wives, enjoy the best of relaxations, have establishments that will
echo all over the globe, be famous like the world known footballers and
musicians, and so many other good things.
But the truth is that some of these dreams of the people in
this class do not come through even before they leave the planet earth. The
young face so many challenges. Some in their place of work are not paid and
those who are paid are not paid on time. Some due to the challenge of this kind
quite from the jobs they long waited for.
According to the Bible of the Christian religion, money
answers all things. A youth without money is limited in his or her operations.
When he is hungry, there is no money for him to buy something to eat. When in
need of transport to a particular place, the fuel to go there which is money is
not there. What a pity.
He sees good clothes in markets and pretends as if he sees
nothing because the pocket is empty. He sees where corns are roasted and throws
his face to the other side because the password he does not have.
Financial challenge has made youths do things they cannot
ordinarily do in their right senses. They stain their hands in blood and
indulge in dirty activities because they want to break the barrier of financial
bondage.
Emotion: Youths
are full of emotions. The emotions of youth burn like fire. Some have made
indelible mistakes because of this challenge. When emotions come, some youths
try to satisfy it through any means close to them.
Young ladies have destroyed their fallopian tubes because of
this kind of challenge. They take in from the opposite sex when they are high
in their desires and in the course of trying to correct this cause more
problems for themselves.
Prosperity: This
is defined as a successful, flourishing, or thriving condition, especially in
the financial respects. Youths want to have large area of lands, houses and
other good things that make life enjoyable.
Quest for these things have landed many into mess which has
not been corrected for years. Lack of prosperity is among the cardinal
challenges being faced by the world youths today.
Fear of the unknown: What will I do after my graduation from
the university? Will this school that I want to establish be patronized by the
people of the community? How am I sure that this skill am acquiring will sell
when I finish the learning? Will I survive in the labor market with this small
money that my boss settled me with.
These are some of the questions that the youths ask
themselves when they want to start-up with their lives. They are usually faced
with the fear of the unknown which is a challenge for the young.
Impatient: many
youths are not patient with life. They want to eat today and die tomorrow. This
kind of lifestyle has taken the lives of many. They do not look before they
harvest.
Impatience has landed many youths into mess. We get report
from news on youths who died in the course of their sneaking into another
country through illegal means. Some when they succeeded in crossing over die in
prisons as a result of the offenses committed.
Drug trafficking by the young in the society is no longer
new. Some before they carried out such dirty business have already vowed that
it is either they made it or die in the process because they believed the life
they were living was no longer useful to them. That kind of thought comes in
because they were not able to wait again. After counting the number of
achievements their mates have made, they got into it.
One of the principal solutions to youth challenges is
Perseverance. You must learn how to endure to envelope good fortune. The Bible
states that he who endures till the end shall be saved. And if you want to be
saved financial, you need to persevere.
As a young man, do not be so bothered on the unknown. I know
you may be worried in the initial time because that is why you are flesh and
blood, but do not allow the fear to get into your bloodstream. Make sure you
get yourself prepared on time. Ask questions on the things you do not know and
make proper research. Summon courage and invest into anything you want to
specialize. No cross no crown. No risk no success. Take the risk after proper
precautions as there is no successful man that did not take risk before he made
it.
What can you do? Working under an establishment is good but
you become more financially free when you know how to do certain things that
will add some money into your pockets. Youths should learn how to do other
things that can add money to their pockets apart from their main work. That is
what I call diversification. This will help you to avoid the challenge of being
financially bankrupt.
Sometimes you wake up in the morning and find out there is
no soap to even take your bath. You searched your wallet and the pockets of
your trousers and see nothing to buy soap. At this point, you become troubled.
Do not get worried so much. You can go out and ask your
neighbor to loan few money to you. When you are paid, just pay back. Bob Marley
in one of his songs titled “Three little Birds” said that everything gonna be
alright. Just have that massage at the back of your mind. The hardship will not
last forever. I recommend that you get a copy of that Bob Marley’s song. It is a motivational song.
One night, the sleep you were enjoying cut. You could no
longer sleep again. You began to count some of your mates who have acquired
enough properties and good things of life. Emmanuel is riding the latest car,
Frank is happily married with kids, Godwin just finish building his new house,
Michael just bought land in one of the happening places in the country and so
on.
You make all these comparison and at a point you began to
ask yourself: “what kind of life am I living?” Am I cursed or is it the path
made for me to pass? That may be the path you are made to follow to make it in
life.
I want you to know this, the more you compare yourself with
your so call successful mates, the more confused and worried you become. You
can’t be any of them. You are unique. You are just yourself. Because of that,
you have to work on yourself and persevere to acquire your own resources.
Do you know how many years those your friends you are
comparing yourself with are to last on this planet? Your way is quite different
from theirs. Work and hope for better.
Many youths have suffered a lot of emotional trauma from
different friends. I was once a victim of such bad cake. I thought I would die
when it started. But where am I today? I am still living today.
When you test such bad cake, take it as part of life and
move on. Do not see it as the end of life. Let go and move ahead. The partner
who will take care of you properly will still come. Make out time to mingle
with friends and do not stay lonely when you experience heart break from your
boyfriend or girlfriend.
He broke my heart, I know. He stole a lot of things from me
when I was into relationship with him, I know. He even promised to marry me and
at the end ran away with almost all the money I spent on her, I know. Just try
and hold yourself. That your head will not burst because of the pains you are
experiencing due to the betrayal. Life must go on my dear.
In conclusion, no matter what you are passing through as a
youth, do not die yet. I want you to know that there is always a great light at
the end of the tunnel. You got work yet the management is not paying you when
due, just take the pain now because the challenge will not last forever. Time
will come when you will remember those days of starting when challenges were
much and you will laugh. The starting of life as a youth is not always easy.
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